Comments on: Semi-related Parallel Trauma, Part 1 http://country-of-liars.com/3309/parallel-trauma-1/ Wed, 16 May 2012 09:20:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Larry http://country-of-liars.com/3309/parallel-trauma-1/comment-page-1/#comment-3521 Larry Fri, 13 Apr 2012 08:41:59 +0000 http://country-of-liars.com/?p=3309#comment-3521 It's fulfilling when my experiences and research permits someone else from not going through the same thing that I did. Once your character is assassinated, those shallow people won't ever believe the truth, let alone listen to it. The more knowledge we have, the better. Keep on learning. It’s fulfilling when my experiences and research permits someone else from not going through the same thing that I did. Once your character is assassinated, those shallow people won’t ever believe the truth, let alone listen to it.

The more knowledge we have, the better. Keep on learning.

]]> By: Jordan http://country-of-liars.com/3309/parallel-trauma-1/comment-page-1/#comment-3519 Jordan Fri, 13 Apr 2012 08:05:11 +0000 http://country-of-liars.com/?p=3309#comment-3519 My dear friend Lar, Sorry if I'm being a pest, but I cannot tell you how deeply your blog/site has affected me eventhough it's been less than a couple of days discovering it. From the moment after reading the first paragraph of the "Avenging a sociopath" article my life with my soon to be ex-wife all of a sudden now takes a whole new dimension. I knew she had serious mental "issues" but just couldn't quite put my finger on it. Yes, I already felt she had psychotic tendancies however I just couldn't make the connection. I can write a novel to best "War and Peace" not just in volume, but a totally new dimension on the title. I'm the type of person who is "wired" to a fault, in that my mind won't allow me to rest until a problem is solved. This one is absolutely no acception, if not priority. I'm not saying I can fix "her", as well as her "disciples" perse. From what Iv'e learned so far from the stories and information on your website, I was able to "test" my new knowledge today in that showing I'm a "compliant" and "usefull" "idiot". But, I know it's more than that,,, there's more to it. I know. Funny, I pulled from previous interactions and I know that if I'm hostile, I'm going to be bested in a heartbeat. However, more dangerous is trying to be too nice,,, they get suspicious. Ultimately, I was able to walk away from the experience with her being satisfied that I am, for the moment, "her useful idiot". I can sleep tonight (that is, still with one eye open, instead of both). Ultimately, yes, I know. I still have a lot to learn. However, knowledge of the sociopath's behaviour, and their "triggers" is the best weapon a person can have that cannot.... walk away. Hey, living the life as a "useful idiot" is a hell of a lot better than cowering under a bed in some hotel 300 miles away waiting for the sheriffs department to serve me,,,, or worse, again..... I can live with that for now.... Thanks Lar, youv'e given me hope! Jordan (Useful Idiot) ; - ) My dear friend Lar,

Sorry if I’m being a pest, but I cannot tell you how deeply your blog/site has affected me eventhough it’s been less than a couple of days discovering it. From the moment after reading the first paragraph of the “Avenging a sociopath” article my life with my soon to be ex-wife all of a sudden now takes a whole new dimension. I knew she had serious mental “issues” but just couldn’t quite put my finger on it. Yes, I already felt she had psychotic tendancies however I just couldn’t make the connection.

I can write a novel to best “War and Peace” not just in volume, but a totally new dimension on the title. I’m the type of person who is “wired” to a fault, in that my mind won’t allow me to rest until a problem is solved. This one is absolutely no acception, if not priority.

I’m not saying I can fix “her”, as well as her “disciples” perse. From what Iv’e learned so far from the stories and information on your website, I was able to “test” my new knowledge today in that showing I’m a “compliant” and “usefull” “idiot”. But, I know it’s more than that,,, there’s more to it. I know. Funny, I pulled from previous interactions and I know that if I’m hostile, I’m going to be bested in a heartbeat. However, more dangerous is trying to be too nice,,, they get suspicious. Ultimately, I was able to walk away from the experience with her being satisfied that I am, for the moment, “her useful idiot”. I can sleep tonight (that is, still with one eye open, instead of both).

Ultimately, yes, I know. I still have a lot to learn. However, knowledge of the sociopath’s behaviour, and their “triggers” is the best weapon a person can have that cannot…. walk away. Hey, living the life as a “useful idiot” is a hell of a lot better than cowering under a bed in some hotel 300 miles away waiting for the sheriffs department to serve me,,,, or worse, again….. I can live with that for now….

Thanks Lar, youv’e given me hope!

Jordan (Useful Idiot) ; – )

]]> By: Larry http://country-of-liars.com/3309/parallel-trauma-1/comment-page-1/#comment-81 Larry Thu, 07 Jan 2010 01:17:28 +0000 http://country-of-liars.com/?p=3309#comment-81 Michael, Thank you for your kind words, and words of support. There are times I need to get away from this, clear my mind, and do other things. So I apologize for taking so long to respond. But you obviously like to write, and I suggest that you should begin your own blog about your experiences. There are many free blogging platforms, where all you do is register, and you have a place to begin your blog. It's very easy. Here are two of the more popular platforms ... http://wordpress.com/ http://www.blogger.com/ Give it a shot ... you'll enjoy it, I bet. All the best, Lar Michael,

Thank you for your kind words, and words of support. There are times I need to get away from this, clear my mind, and do other things. So I apologize for taking so long to respond.

But you obviously like to write, and I suggest that you should begin your own blog about your experiences. There are many free blogging platforms, where all you do is register, and you have a place to begin your blog. It’s very easy. Here are two of the more popular platforms …

http://wordpress.com/
http://www.blogger.com/

Give it a shot … you’ll enjoy it, I bet.

All the best,
Lar

]]> By: Michael N. http://country-of-liars.com/3309/parallel-trauma-1/comment-page-1/#comment-78 Michael N. Wed, 30 Dec 2009 16:25:15 +0000 http://country-of-liars.com/?p=3309#comment-78 Hey Larry Merry belated Christmas. I hope the new year welcomes you with better news and remember, this fight is winless. The damage cannot be repaired except in one way and one way only. You must have peace with yourself my friend. It is so nice to hear from you. I pray for you every night before I go to bed. I wish I could meet you sometime. Anyhow all of the disciples of my brother and mother are still at their sick game. The attorneys, the bankers, the insurance agents, the property managers, the entire family, still assassinating my character on behalf of the orchestra leaders, my brother and mother. Larry I would not want to be in their shoes. Do you ever wonder what's going on in their bodies, their minds? The wheels are constantly turning, a million miles an hour, scheming, manipulating, "covering their tracks" with more lies to cover more lies, and they have no idea the pain and suffering they are inflicting on a sibling and son. They don't feel the pain. Its awful. Sometimes it feels like a slow torturous death. But I try and remind myself, "Its all about moving Gods Kingdom forward. I've been thinking, I have been thinking about writing a script, perhaps turning it into a movie. Perhaps taking an aggressive move to tell the masses of this terrible disease. Like you say we're surrounded. But then again imprisoned, because so many are "infected" the question is "how many will believe there is a problem to begin with? How many deciples are ill themselves? And I have come to the conclusion that much of society has, as I say "caught the cold directly and have become so infected," that there is no chance of deprogramming." Can you understand Larry? Larry, just thank god that we understand and have been blessed with the proper chemistry not to circum to the effects and consequences of suicide that I am for certain, in many cases, is the result of the traumatic effects that the "sociopaths" unleash on their victims. Anyhow it's so nice to hear from you. Take care my earthly friend. I love you my "brother" and stay strong. MichaeL in Apple Valley California Hey Larry
Merry belated Christmas.
I hope the new year welcomes you with better news and remember, this fight is winless. The damage cannot be repaired except in one way and one way only. You must have peace with yourself my friend. It is so nice to hear from you. I pray for you every night before I go to bed. I wish I could meet you sometime.
Anyhow all of the disciples of my brother and mother are still at their sick game. The attorneys, the bankers, the insurance agents, the property managers, the entire family, still assassinating my character on behalf of the orchestra leaders, my brother and mother.
Larry I would not want to be in their shoes. Do you ever wonder what’s going on in their bodies, their minds? The wheels are constantly turning, a million miles an hour, scheming, manipulating, “covering their tracks” with more lies to cover more lies, and they have no idea the pain and suffering they are inflicting on a sibling and son. They don’t feel the pain. Its awful. Sometimes it feels like a slow torturous death.
But I try and remind myself, “Its all about moving Gods Kingdom forward. I’ve been thinking, I have been thinking about writing a script, perhaps turning it into a movie. Perhaps taking an aggressive move to tell the masses of this terrible disease. Like you say we’re surrounded. But then again imprisoned, because so many are “infected” the question is “how many will believe there is a problem to begin with? How many deciples are ill themselves? And I have come to the conclusion that much of society has, as I say “caught the cold directly and have become so infected,” that there is no chance of deprogramming.”
Can you understand Larry? Larry, just thank god that we understand and have been blessed with the proper chemistry not to circum to the effects and consequences of suicide that I am for certain, in many cases, is the result of the traumatic effects that the “sociopaths” unleash on their victims. Anyhow it’s so nice to hear from you. Take care my earthly friend. I love you my “brother” and stay strong.
MichaeL in Apple Valley California

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