Verbal Assaults against me (audio Recordings)
Assault against me and showing my son to kick me during the assault against me Dec 26/27/ 2007 (recording)
Double- Doctoring charge (police document)
Able to prove four more double- doctoring after the charge, I have all documents. He was addicted to pills.
Assault against Autism man, I have two witnesses.
Medication stolen, he worked at a place taking care of mental patients and he was the supervisor. Two caregivers witnessed the assault, he was fired and they covered it up to protect the organization as it is well known and is a big facility for mental patients. When my ex was drunk on night he told me he took one of the patients to the bathroom and jerked him off to help him relieve himself. He stated that this was normal.
All your theft charges you got away with, I have all documents.
Never paid child support,back pay you will have to pay on top of child support, Proof.
All your abandonments, proof
Many Car accidents
Allstate insurance frauds, I have proof
Abandoned his first son with another woman when the baby was 2 weeks old, the boy is now 18 years old and he never paid child support.
Many affairs with lots of woman.
He taught his two dogs to attack animals and kill, my property looked like a pet cemetery.
Alcoholic.

Everything that was listed as a sociopath, he fit perfectly, it was like someone wrote this just for him. I let her know what a sociopath is all about as he fit the description perfectly. He has got away with almost every crime he has committed. I exposed him for the double-doctoring and he was convicted only on one offense. He’s a professional criminal and the police detectives for the first trial were joking and laughing together while we waited to be called in by the judge. He is charming and funny and deceptive. He can make anyone laugh and would walk into any store, gas station it didn’t matter, and whoever worked there when he left would be smiling and laughing. But he has no friends.

I don’t now if my exposing him helped my situation or if i just threw a time bomb that is going to backfire at me. Al i want is is evil man and his horrible evil girlfriend to get the hell out of my children and me life.

When the children were 2 1/2 and 4 1/4 in December 26/27/2007 I told him that i didn’t love him anymore as i could finally see who he really was a liar, cheater, abuser, stealing, etc. The night that i told him December 26/2007 he attacked me like a robot with no emotion, he tried to strangle me, suffocate me and had our 4 year old son participate in the assault by showing him to kick me as a game on the floor and laughing. He has done mental damage to our son. My son witnessed the whole assault and remembers to this day.

He pulled the phone cords out of the box and we locked ourselves in a bedroom til he left the next morning to go to work. He called later that day and i said i would have him arrested if came back. It took me 6 weeks to heal from the physical wounds.

Later i decided my son is mentally suffering, I’m suffering and went to the police with my son and told them what happened. He was arrested and we went to trial for over 2 years and he won the trial in late 2009. After trial he contacted me, we exchanged phone calls and emails for awhile. He said that he was not the same person and wanted to see his children. So we set a date for them to meet. I had audio recording ready for his confession and I got it. I wanted a confession for the crime and the horrible trial i had to go through, and the pain my son and i endured. He saw the children a few times 6 hours from the time trial ended to October 31 2010. During that time he abandoned them 3 times. Then we never heard from him.

In October 2011, he showed up at my door with his new girlfriend to serve me court paper for joint custody. I was in shock. Since then his girlfriend and him have called me so many times slandering me, calling me a horrible mother, drug addict and all kinds of things, they called the Children’s aid on me twice, board of education. All accusations they stated were proven to be false. He tells his new girlfriends lies about me and she believes them and slanders me.

He has never paid child support. His new girlfriend owns her own home and makes over 80,000.00 a year but won’t pay for a lawyer for him. He make 35,000.00 a year. They both made a contract for me to sign for 200.00 a month. I refused to sign. I have a lawyer. My lawyer has stated that if the judge feels that I’m holding the children against him i could lose. He has never cared about the children or their well-being. It’s not the children he is after it’s me for revenge. He keeps talking about the past, he won’t let go.

I have to be in court on Tuesday to make a decision of either meditation were he gets visitation or go to trial. I don’t want to do either one. He won the first trial and lied to the judge , police his lawyer. I went through hell as victim on the witness stand. I thought i have to find a way to stop him before Tuesday so I exposed him through emails to his new girlfriend. I don’t know if it did any good. He has called here since then 12 times and only breaths n the phone. His girlfriend was in a relationship with a man for 19 years and had two children with him, she met my ex at a bar and they started an affair. Her husband found out and broke he cell phone and some altercation happened. She called the police and had her husband pt in jail and a restraining order placed against him then my ex moved in the same night.

He has been living there now for a year and a little bit. But she has kicked my ex out 3 times and has taken him back each time. Her husband contacted her to get his belongings and she contacted the police again so another restraining order has been placed. My ex stated that he has a new home, money, a pool table, huge screen tv, bar(he is an alcoholic also) anything he wants. He stated that he has now alot to offer the children. This woman has a 12 year old child in the home. this woman knows about the assault and me son, she calls me a liar.

She stated he has changed and is not the same person. She stated that she has the man now that is good and that i wish i had. I hate this man. I exposed other things about him and she read all as she has taken away his facebook account, and shares an email address with him, as she doesn’t trust him because he has been with many woman. Something must of happened for her to kick him out three times and take him back. I told them i have a boyfriend and she stated,Your just trying to make him jealous. he also stated to him on speaker phone,” I know your still in love with her”, meaning me. Then the phone went dead. I know what is going on here he wants revenge.

Someone please help me.

Thank you for your response. It is more helpful than you will ever know. You brought some things to light that I had not thought of.

I have not read what happened with you and only just started to look around this site, this evening. I am so sorry about your daughters, my heart breaks for you. I have seen/lived with/felt my husbands heartbreak, so so devastating.

You are telling me what my “gut instincts” were, but what I did not want to truly admit to myself. As you said, she has only begun. You brought to light that she cannot risk being outed as a liar, that one scares me, because she can ramble on for hours on end backing up her lies.

Personally I hope we move as soon as possible. The MagicJackPro will be used I can guarantee you that and Thank you for that info!!

I wrote to you this evening while my husband was at work, knowing of course I would later show him what I wrote and your response whenever it came in. I have showed him your response and he is quietly taking it in. He needed to see your response Larry, he needed to “read” the truth, the actual words.

I thank you for that.

Hello and you’re welcome.

As you read through this site, you’ll discover your story is similar to others, including my own … you are not alone.

>> In your experience and from what you have seen do you think she will continue on?

You did a good job summarizing, but I’m sure the details could fill a small book. Will she continue? I think you answered that about mid-way. She’s only just begun, and in her mind, she’s not succeeding (i.e., not getting the results she wants). She could continue for the rest of her life. Keep in mind that all the lies she’s spread she must maintain forever, otherwise she’ll be outed as a liar. She can’t risk that.

If she’s frustrated by the lack of carnage she wishes to create, it would be practically impossible to guess what she’s plotting next, and rest assured, they don’t like to lose. I’d be very cautious if I were you.

If you have the opportunity to move away, do it quietly. Disappear. Talk about pissing her off, that’ll do it.

Where ever you go, get a MagicJackPro VoIP (Voice over IP) instead of local phone service. It runs off your Internet connection. The cool thing is that when you sign up, you select a new phone number, and you can choose from virtually any area code in the country. My area code is about 2000 miles away from where I live. And since long distance is free, it doesn’t matter. It’s quite confusing for the person looking at caller ID.

Record all conversations with her. And I say this with great sadness, but the kids could have gotten the “bad gene” from her, as it doesn’t manifest itself until the mid to late teens in most cases. I lost both my daughters to that. They could be great, sensitive and loving kids, then they turn teenagers and you can literally watch them change, and be able to do nothing about it.

From what you say, you could be in a dangerous situation. Watch your back.

My husbands ex-wife is a sociopath. They were married for 15 years and have 3 children together, they are 23 yrs,17 and 15 yrs old. We all live in the same small town. My concern is great as she has been out to destroy my husband the past year. It seems her main purpose is to kill his soul.

She has alienated his children against him (parental alienation syndrome) and they have taken on her traits as well. She lies to them and says that he stole money from her , that he doesn’t pay his child support. My husband begs his oldest daughter (the 2 younger sons have a no contact order with him) to come and look at the receipts for child support , to view the CD from court where it clearly states my husband did not steal money , and on and on. She will have none of it, she just says “ok daddy” then turns right around and continues with the lies her mother started.

Before the past year my husband had a good loving relationship with his sons (or so we thought) and although it was hard (with such a strong powerful sociopath mother in the background) I thought I was too. Thank god that the last contact he had with them was a camping trip where his father,brother and brother -in – law were all there and they could see he did nothing wrong! He was just being your regular guy drinking around the campfire, fishing, telling stories and so on. This was the last contact the boys had with their father.

My concern is in regards to the future and how far she will go > Court is now over, (and still to this day I am grateful that the Judge saw through her lies!, omg so many stories where they dont! especially when the female or male is extremely beautiful or handsome) but right before Court our Attorney told us that his ex’s attorney had emailed her a letter that was so sickining and so evil that she did not even want to show it to us, omg we had already seen so many evil letters spewing forth pure lies, I cannot even imagine what the last letter said!!

It seems that she wants him to go off the deep end , like just totally lose it and go to her house and beat up the boyfriend or threaten her or or or, and thats the thing, I feel she is not getting the reaction she wants (basically to SEE his suffering, like put in jail or something) so I am fearful of how far this socio path will go… He will never give her this reaction because he wants nothing to do with her. He is devastated about his children but realizes there is nothing he can do..

I want to leave town ASAP, I feel like we are sitting ducks for her next evil scheme,, but on the other hand I feel it is wrong to live in fear.

In your experience and from what you have seen do you think she will continue on? I feel she is just plotting her next great act…

“Running away” does not mean she wins … it means you do. In your life, there’s nothing more important than you. Moving, changing you email, phone, and a forwarding address, means she just lost her biggest thrill, and that’s victimizing you.

Some people are determined to avenge their sociopath, but I’ve never heard of a victim truly winning in the long run. I’m a testament to that. I may well at some time, but it’ll be a log shot.

If people admit to you that sociopath labeled your husband a pedophile, that’s worthy of a slander suit. If you also wrote to people , that would also essentially be libel.

I really do not think you want to co-exist with her since nothing will ever change, and likely get worse. Get as far away from her as you can. Protect you and your family.

after extensive online research and reading this blog, i have discovered that my best friend of 16 years, is indeed an evil and malicious sociopath.

her upbringing was extremely abusive and traumatic but she always appeared to be strong and not bothered by anything.. over the years i saw this girl treat people as pawns to get what she wanted, most of the time it was for the pure enjoyment of other peoples suffering but unfortunately she has turned her wrath upon me.

although your advice is to run away, i feel i cant do that as in the past, she gets bored and turns her attention to someone else after a me, and i just want to know if theres any way to live amongst these people without having to run.

My family and i moved interstate to a tiny town 12 months ago, to be closer to (my best friend) as she manipulated me into thinking, i needed her support. However her control on my life became unbearable and my relationship with my husband was suffereing as she hated him and wanted me to leave him and move in with her and her family.

I guess it was then that i tried to keep my distance and that is when all hell broke loose. She has made up stories as to why she no longer wants to be my friend and has suddenly turned from my best friend, to a complete enemy.

My wish is to co-exist with her in this town with no contact and to act as though we never met, but she has other plans for me. She announced at a parents club meeting with the school that my child attends, that my husband is a peodophile. She has no proof of this or reason to say it, only to destroy my life. She has also tried to sabotage my relationship with members of my family by telling them lies about me, that im an alcoholic and a bad mother.

Although these are just rumours that she has spread, it is her first step towards destroying me and i know she is capable of much more as i have seen it with my own eyes from a long friendship with her.

I have seen this woman, beat her older sister and strangle her until she was blue in the face, all because she wouldnt return any calls or messages after two weeks of verbal abuse and bullying via the internet. She is now, friends with her sister again and has turned onto me.
I have researched all the signs of a sociopath and she is definitely in that category, however i dont want to leave town and let her get away with what she is doing to me and my family.

If i run, she wins. please help…thanks..

Thanks for writing back … I appreciate the clarification.

I have attempted to help anyone I’ve come across that I believe needs help, or just education for the future. But I must admit, for the handfull of friends I’ve referred to this site, the majority kind of faded away. But in analyzing those who faded, I realized that some had traits of their own, two of whom admitted it to me. One told me she was uncomfortable reading it since she recognized herself in it.

What do you say?

About six months after I directed a female friend to this site, I received a long email spelling out the most charming guy she had been dating, and how he had become hostile and violent … “exactly how you describe it in your site.” She left him quickly and I felt good about that.

But I’m all about truth, and cheating is not truth. If I get the opportunity to expose the cheating with enough evidence, I’ll be on it and they’ll get what they deserve. It’s not done to be vengeful, but to assert fairness to those who deserve it.

I hope you’ll read more of the site.